if this helps others. I found this very helpfull
No doubt Winamp is the best player to play mp3. it has a little but very nice plugin call Play_List_file_remover v2.2 which enable user to delete file from now playing list and move to next track. file can be moved to recycle bin/ or permanently.
After lots of googling I was able to find compatible version of winamp and plugin, can be downloaded from here
http://www.mediafire.com/folder/0ff11hrbzchf7/winamp
extract the plugin
after installing winamp
usually its in C:\Program Files (x86)\Winamp\Plugins
copy the gen_play_remove.dll file to plugin directory
restart winamp
winamp>option>preference>plugin>general purpose>hotkey support (enable it)
winamp>option>preference>Global hotkey (enable)>Playback:delete current song from playlist (assign a hot key)
restart winamp, start using hot key while playing
cheers
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