Old 16th October 2001, 15:11   #161
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And after him, we have me.. the man monkey of Scotland!

Hello all by the way. Work is boring, and I want to sleep.

What's that? I have to remain on topic.. uhm.. girls are good for the respitory system.. or something.. yeah.. right..
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Old 17th October 2001, 01:16   #162
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And then after you two, we have me.

We should make a little club for insecure people .

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 17th October 2001, 01:18   #163
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Looks are so unimportant, though... I personally don't care what a guy looks like, so long as he's nice and treats me right.

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 17th October 2001, 03:54   #164
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Looks are so unimportant, though... I personally don't care what a guy looks like, so long as he's nice and treats me right.
A good kisser never hurts either.

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Old 17th October 2001, 05:32   #165
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I don't know. I guess that's important as well...

But more importantly, point me in the direction of a nice guy please!

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 17th October 2001, 07:42   #166
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*closes eyes and points*
.... !
Ouh, sorry missy, didn't mean to point at you.

Hmm. Maybe I should try again..

*closes eyes and points again*

.......?
In what direction did the finger point?
Don't miss the sequel!

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Old 17th October 2001, 08:28   #167
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well alot of things are not important to you woman.
you can live with a guy thats ugly kisses bad or is minuteman in bed
all or one or any combo of those.
but you and i both know having the better of those listed makes you much more happy and with that the relation ship is much much better.

if woman keep dishing out some of that crap to make guys feel better or more secure about them selfs they will never work on the other things that could make up for that one (or more) bad thing(s).
plus alot of guys can tell when they are being humored, thats so much more worse then an honest opinoin.

basicaly what im saying is the one word "does not matter" things you woman like to tell guys ie: looks, kisses, size, build, hieght, & other one word features that are purly cosmetic that you know damn well effects you some way or another.

woman you need to be telling those guys more then the half truth.
[example]
"he doesnt have to be good looking".
see you need to finsh the statment so the ugly guy can work on his stronger stronger points that could make the relation ship better, or atleast his next.

so you should be saying, "looks dont matter as long as he can make me laugh and is funn to be around".

atleast be honest that way if there is something wrong they can try to fix the problem or do something to make up for it.
(like if i was an asshole and thats all i was, id be a better asshole if i was funny and brought you flowers, get it)

how about the famous one "SIZE does not matter" ha ha ha sure its not that important as long as your (the girl) still getting off, right?
have you ever heard girls say that to guys? me niether, but they should, see that way the guy thinks about it, well damn i cant whip out a big burrito so a better have a super toqito (not sure how its spelled but you get it) any ways, im not saying woman are horriblle for those things. i just think to make it better for you woman you should be telling guys everything.
ok ill stop talking now
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Old 17th October 2001, 10:47   #168
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Okaaay.. THAT was alot of text!

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Old 17th October 2001, 12:35   #169
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/me faints from all the text
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Old 17th October 2001, 12:42   #170
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Yes. Scary it is. Blurp.
Now spank me!

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Old 17th October 2001, 15:15   #171
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it wasnt that bad, it dont take long to read.
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Old 17th October 2001, 19:07   #172
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point me in the direction of a nice guy please!

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Old 17th October 2001, 20:12   #173
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John you beat me to it. I was just going to say how nice of a guy you are

John M is a nice guy and if I was 15 years younger..... <grin>.


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Old 17th October 2001, 20:21   #174
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do you have a sister?

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Old 17th October 2001, 21:57   #175
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Here I go again into the deep end, but, for what it's worth...

One night my friend DJ Denny and I sat at his club after closing.
We were discussing why it was...
that neither of us could keep a steady relationship for very long.
Two of the girls we knew gave us their ideas, knowing us like they did.
They said it was because we were too nice.
After a while, women took advantage of us and the way we were.
They thought we should be living in the days of chivalry, because that's how we were.
To them we were...
Knights in shining armour.
Always there to rescue the maiden in distress.
Fighting dragons to save the lady.
Honorable and respectfull.
But...they said..."those days are gone"
We were just "hopeless romantics left behind by changing times"
We both decided this was probably true...
But why change when change meant mistreating rather than respecting?
Why change when change meant not being there when needed?
Why change when change meant keeping quiet instead of complimenting?
Why change when change meant holding back instead of communicating?
Why change when change meant being selfish instead of givng?
Why change when change meant running from dragons?
The conversation went on...
As they walked away...they both looked back and said...
"We really love you two hopeless romantics. One day your Guinevere will arrive."

Oh well...enough from me...
I'm off chasing dragons.
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Old 17th October 2001, 22:20   #176
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But why change when change meant mistreating rather than respecting?
Why change when change meant not being there when needed?
Why change when change meant keeping quiet instead of complimenting?
Why change when change meant holding back instead of communicating?
Why change when change meant being selfish instead of givng?
These are such honerable qualities in a man. Dont ever change who you are for another person. If it was ment to be then it will be.

A few months back I made a list of what I would look for in a relationship/marriage with a man. Here goes:

honesty, loyalty and compassion
communication
Passion/affectionate
Lifetime committment
someone that is willing to share housework
responsibilities
good manners
career oriented
family oriented
(a good balance of the above 2 things)
must genuinely love children
not just wants me, but the boys as well
patience
generous (not just a money word here)
thoughtful
someone that wants to do family activities outside the home ie: park/pool/skating/amusement parks, ect.... not controlling, let me be me
sexual, but not use sex as a tool for other things.
take the effort it takes to make a great relationship.

~ Missy
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Old 17th October 2001, 22:39   #177
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it would scare the hell out of me to date a lady with 3 kids (not just cuz i'm 15). girls cling to their mother, and boys are more attached to their fathers. and to have to be a father to 3 kids all coming at the same time, whoa. it would take a hell of a man to do that.

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Old 17th October 2001, 22:47   #178
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I fully agree with you John. I have been a single parent for 6 years now, and the boys are extremely attached to me. They are "mamas boys". They are very close to me because I have been their stability and there for them for their whole lives.

I am definately not looking for a man for a husband at this point in my life. I have seen too many men get pushed on kids in relationships and I could not do that to my children or another guy. It would have to be a bond that developed naturally. Maybe when they are older I will settle down, but for now, I enjoy the dates I go on.

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Old 17th October 2001, 23:09   #179
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well said missy, i think a lot of single parents would do well to realize that


back to insecure ppl, i really know what that is all about,
when you grow up as a fat kid, there is just no way in hell you can ever be convinced that you look good
(take me as an example: all my female friends say i'm handsome, but i just can't seem to accept it)
ah well, at least i know i'm not the only one
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Old 18th October 2001, 06:58   #180
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What qualities do I look for?

Most importantly:

- Kindness
- Honesty
- Loyalty
- Passionate
- Sense of humour

Physically, nice eyes are the most important thing to me, that and a genuine smile...

Honestly, what's the point of having a good looking guy if he won't stand by you or treat you right? Looks are nothing. They don't last, and they're not who a person is. You can be gorgeous superficially, but extremely ugly in personality... You can be plain superficially but have an amazing personality.

In reality I just want someone to be there for me.

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 18th October 2001, 08:17   #181
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Old 18th October 2001, 15:16   #182
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looks are not everything, but they help
but looks are only the red flag that catch your eye, i have gone out with alot of good looking girls, the downfall, alot of em dont got shit for brains, or no personality, or have serious head problems
( stripers ) or all of the above.
i do have to say that the only way i went out with those type of woman (im not just talking about the stripers ) is i was attracted by the way they look, of course I guess in a lot of peoples eye that makes me shallow, she has to look good. period, i cant date an ugly person she has to do it for me, its not at the top of the list but its in the top 5. my girlfriend says the same thing, hes gotta have nice teeth, hes gotta be good looking, hes gotta be tall, etc. of course the most important things would be the things that come from the inside, but those things dont amount to shit for me or her if the outside is not the same as the inside.
yes, call me shallow, call me what ever, but thats the way it is (for me)
i dont like fat,ugly,stinky,nasty woman, see the way i look at i take care of myself, the woman im with should be doing the same.
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Old 18th October 2001, 17:03   #183
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One other quality in a person that is being overlooked here...
is confidence.
If a person is confident in who they are,
confident in what they believe, how they feel,
then that shows from the inside to the outside.
You can tell a confident person the minute they walk in the door.
Not the arrogant, look at me, I'm better than you confidence.
But the one who shows confidence in a more humble way.
It takes time and experience to achieve.
But it's a quality that shines on first sight.
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Old 18th October 2001, 18:41   #184
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Old 19th October 2001, 06:08   #185
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One other quality in a person that is being overlooked here...
is confidence.
If a person is confident in who they are,
confident in what they believe, how they feel,
then that shows from the inside to the outside.
You can tell a confident person the minute they walk in the door.
Not the arrogant, look at me, I'm better than you confidence.
But the one who shows confidence in a more humble way.
It takes time and experience to achieve.
But it's a quality that shines on first sight.
Very good point.

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 19th October 2001, 06:11   #186
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I got a new photo of me... But nobody else posted their photos! Except me and DJ Roach.

Well...here goes. But other people better post theirs too in here



Click-y here

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 19th October 2001, 08:09   #187
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Warning. Do not click here!

(Unless you want a real good scare. )

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Old 19th October 2001, 08:40   #188
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Nice, jns!!!!

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Nice, jns!!!! [some smilies edited away]
You got THAT scared?
C'mon!

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Old 19th October 2001, 10:42   #190
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Silly!

You're cute. How old are you?

(omg, am I hitting on someone? omg! lol )

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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rofl.

How old I am?
http://www.felibarr.org/me.cgi

(who are you hitting on? )

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Old 19th October 2001, 11:21   #192
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sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Old 19th October 2001, 11:31   #193
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jns!!

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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Hi!

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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(I'm not good at getting hit on)

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Old 19th October 2001, 17:41   #198
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Old 20th October 2001, 00:02   #200
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lol

Someone else post photos so this urge for me to hide goes away !

lol

sunshine on the window makes me happy, like i should be, outside all around me, really sleazy, then it hits me, don't tell me you can't see what it means to me! meanwhile, in the moonlight, purple people, unforseeable, lonely as they may be, they'll be peachy, then it hits me...
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