Old 8th March 2007, 12:53   #1
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If you go on a date..........

If you go on a date, it goes well and you like that person, how long do you wait before you call them again?
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Old 8th March 2007, 12:58   #2
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Depends on how good the sex was.
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Old 8th March 2007, 13:04   #3
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^ Nice!
I don't call...I'm a girl kitty! Men will chase what they want! You have ta' go by man standard time, which is very different than women's!
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Old 8th March 2007, 13:06   #4
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Yeah, men usually measure everything differently to what it actually is...12 inches is really 3 etc etc..
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Old 8th March 2007, 13:16   #5
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^ I've never verbally discussed with a guy what the size of his "dicky mouse" is...you find out one way or the other..Is this how guys think of themselves, Jones?
Ya' know, take the number..add your birthday divide by 2 multiple by 1 1/2 etc etc. The call thing is, "If he hasn't called in two days, buh-bye!" If he calls the next day, and sends Flowies, he gets points!

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Old 8th March 2007, 13:24   #6
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Not me personally, but men in general tend to exaggerate , I bet you back in caveman days they were bragging about that time they caught a beast THAT WAS THIS BIG, when really it was this big

In all honestly however if I was into the chick I'd just dated, and by 'into' I don't mean, well you know, I'd be calling back the next day, even the same evening on the way home.

And girls, don't be afraid to go after that man, don't wait for him to call you, because again , knowing men, we'll get distracted by something or other (cars, beer, other women) and forget to call for a day or two, so don't be afraid to dive right in if you want a second date.

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Old 8th March 2007, 13:30   #7
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If "You "(You Universal, not you specific) are so easily distracted then I don't want you!

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Old 8th March 2007, 13:34   #8
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It's not that we are easily distracted, but when it comes to ....oh look a balloon!!!!!!!!!!


Sorry, what were you saying again?
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Old 8th March 2007, 13:36   #9
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Old 8th March 2007, 13:47   #10
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Old 8th March 2007, 13:53   #11
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Old 8th March 2007, 14:02   #12
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Day at the beach = bad stuff for me....

To much sun, sand up your ass, jelly fish stinging you in the ass, small children screaming, blah blah blah


Gimme indoors and a cold beer any day of the week...
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Old 8th March 2007, 14:07   #13
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One of the Exs used ta' say "You're a real day at the beach, you know that"!!! He talks to himself, now, a lot!



I think he was being sarcastic...
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Old 8th March 2007, 15:20   #14
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Back on subject, 2 days is optimum. If you call the day following the date you will be seen as hopelessly needy and probably a potential stalker. Ya gots to give the girl time to think about you for say, 24 -30 hours and just get to that edge of, "Ah dammit, he's not gonna call...." then you call. It's a tension/dynamic social engineering concept.

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Old 8th March 2007, 15:27   #15
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^ And we hate you for that !
Also, we then plan our revenge!
Calling right away does not a stalker make!...Setting up that "Duck Blind" with those night vision glasses on the other hand....

What a man says when he calls and is on a date with a woman, shows if he is a desperate, overly needy, creepy guy.


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Old 8th March 2007, 15:29   #16
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I'm sorry if science scares you.

"Which is worse, ignorance or indifference?"

"I don't know, and I don't care."
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Old 8th March 2007, 15:33   #17
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Old 8th March 2007, 15:37   #18
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And girls, don't be afraid to go after that man, don't wait for him to call you, because again , knowing men, we'll get distracted by something or other (cars, beer, other women) and forget to call for a day or two, so don't be afraid to dive right in if you want a second date.
True 'dat. Don't forget, it's hard to read other people for many people... he may think that you're not into him, and not call based on that.

If you're worried about being too agressive, you can be ...sly... about it, but personally, I'm a fan of directness. Leave a message:

"Hey John, I had a good time Saturday, but I haven't heard from you. If you lost it, my number's 555-5555. Ok? See you."

It's short, sweet, non-aggressive (if you want to be chased ), gives him your phone number in case he really did lose it, etc.

As for the original question, I'd call either when I said I'd call, or about 24 hours later. I don't like this 'dating game' stuff.

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Old 8th March 2007, 15:41   #19
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seriously, I've always called when I say I'll call. And I always ask if I can call. That's they key. At the end of the date say, "Hey, I had a great time. Can I call you again, say on Thursday? Maybe we could out again, there's a cool band playying at *****'s on the 18th."

"Which is worse, ignorance or indifference?"

"I don't know, and I don't care."
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Old 8th March 2007, 15:43   #20
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Old 8th March 2007, 15:43   #21
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wait a year, call him...
if he remembers you, marry him!

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Old 8th March 2007, 15:48   #22
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Uh...NO!!!! I wouldn't call. And I have no intention of marrying anyone! Living together..yes! Marrying..NO!!!
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Old 8th March 2007, 15:50   #23
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it was just supposed to be funny, widdy

oh and it was also meant to be in response to the original post, not yours

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Old 8th March 2007, 15:57   #24
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It was funny! And I'm a Capitah!
And I posted a response anyway!
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Old 8th March 2007, 17:59   #25
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Old 8th March 2007, 19:38   #26
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I don't really follow that rule, I just go with my heart. If I feel like talking to them then I call. I don't create rules for love. Also I agree with the poster above who says he asks if he can call. If I ask and don't plan on calling for a couple of days then I say so. I don't need a woman holding by the phone nor do I want to do that to someone. Not all guys think this way unfortunately. There are some real dirt bags. If it bothers you he hasn't called then I would say move on. Obviously there is already a communication problem early in the relationship and means he is either playing games (which you don't want) or you are not important enough for him to call back (which you don't want). Time to move on.
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Old 8th March 2007, 21:14   #27
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Yep! Science it ain't! Fucking with someone's emotions it may be. But I agree; don't like it ..move on!
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Old 8th March 2007, 22:55   #28
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Old 9th March 2007, 01:28   #29
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We went out Sunday night..... He called Sunday night. We went out Tuesday... He called Tuesday night and he said he would speak to me Wednesday. Today is Thursday..... I sent him a text just saying I hope his back feels better (he hurt his back) and no response.


Oh well.... This dating thing sucks.

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Old 9th March 2007, 01:30   #30
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I would not say that is exactly a bad sign.

People get busy... and there is nothing behind it besides they are busy.

Sometimes I go a whole week without really seeing my wife!
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Old 9th March 2007, 01:36   #31
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lol.

Ok, lets switch this up a little. How long do you wait until you have sex with new dates?
(Its been a long time since I have been in the dating scene)
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Old 9th March 2007, 01:40   #32
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Old 9th March 2007, 01:51   #33
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Ok, lets switch this up a little. How long do you wait until you have sex with new dates?
If you go out with me, you don't wait at all Missy
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Old 9th March 2007, 01:54   #34
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So are you going to finally make my dreams come true Chev?
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Old 9th March 2007, 03:32   #35
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So are you going to finally make my dreams come true Chev?
long long long time.

I believe it was months....
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Old 9th March 2007, 05:20   #36
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Old 9th March 2007, 06:26   #37
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Re: If you go on a date..........

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If you go on a date, it goes well and you like that person, how long do you wait before you call them again?
If at all..... within 2 days....
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Old 9th March 2007, 08:29   #38
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Really depends on the person and how things played out.
The 2-3 day max limit is true if you have a touchy feely type on your hands. If the person is a bullshitter (much like myself), then having an open ended follow up committment / agreement at the evening is generally best.
But like I said, form and function.

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Old 9th March 2007, 08:40   #39
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^ Yep!



^ and how much they beg...how strong the knots are....and if you like 'em.
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Old 9th March 2007, 09:01   #40
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You can have sex with your date within minutes of meeting her , as long as you provide the right ammount of cash.

I'm sure it'd work the other way around for guys as well
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